bf puzzles me sometimes?

[darlincoco07]

i love my bf, and I trust him completely....but why did it take me physically going to his Myspace (WITH HIS PERMISSION, he was sitting with me, when I did it), and making it private so those **** girls with the fake profiles would stop contacting him? It hurt me every time I saw him check his mail, and there would be 5 random girls I did not know, trying to get in touch with my bf. I kept telling him to make it private, but he just...didnt? Guys, do you get a kick out of making your gf doubt you, or getting attention from random **** girls on myspace? I get them too, and its just annoying...A couple of the ones he had in there that we erased were already "read" messages...like he obviously looked at them, and just chose not to delete them. Whaaa? Sorry, random, just wanted to know what guys and possibly other girls who are in relationships thought about this!

[Sparky]

Sometimes you can't help random contacts. And he might have just been interested to see what one of them said, to see if she was genuine or was just some faker, which would explain the "read" messages.I don't get a kick out of making my girl doubt me. It took me forever to find her, so why screw it up?

[vegetaguy]

I get them too but I dont make mine private because I want the world to see my profile.....i would too hard on mine just to let a selected few see it.

[Krissy]

They send them to everyone. Don't make such a big deal out of it. It's not like he's meeting them or anything. It's natural for a guy to click on it, let him be a guy. Just don't worry about it. Private or not, they're not looking at him, it's all computerized and sent out to everyone. It's not like the **** stars even care who they send it to anyways.

[snowflake]

i think that is totally wrong why dont you try to sit him down and talk to him about youre feelings just tell him how you feel and maybe he will understand

[intrepidflier]

Sorry but us guys we are curios about you girls.We like to checkit out. Thats how we are, not to hurt you in any way but we like that kind of stuff. It turns us on in a way ,then we let it go. No big deal

[swEetcHady]

well, if your bf do love you enough as much as you do.. i think he should know that what he's doing is hurting you and he should do something about it.. if he'll not which is what's he's doing... well.. you know what's next... i know and understand that you love him.. but the thing is... is he deserving?? you should love yourself too... and a gentleman will not act the way he does specially in front of his gf... that's being respectful to all of the gurls specially to you coz you're his gf... if he really love you...well, respect should always be there...better weigh your options for you not to have a problem in the future.. Love yourself...

[Solar_flare]

I'm a Christian... and I've struggled with ****ography i'm not saying he does but no i don't think any should be read i think they should be deleted right off and maybe u need to confront him

[dtmt_2001]

its really not his fault they're sending it to him. it it bothers you that much just tell him how you feel and ask him not to read it anymore