training....?

[Ja-k]

Ok lets say your brother like won't stop kicking you and hiting you hard I dont mean like bruising but you know...and your parents can't do much cux thier too busy and you can't hit him back cuz you'll get in trouble. would that be like training you for abuse when you grow up? I dont wanna be that way.. what can I do to prevent it and it can't be "talking to my parents"
I'm a girl.

[koalalove86]

hit him back...it is training you to be passive, cause eventually you will get used to it...so hit him back and tell him the consequences if he ever hit you again. if he keeps hitting you, hit harder...he'll get it eventually. oh yeah, you'll be making him tougher too, just in case someone does try to pull something on you...your bro will be there to help